The main interest of this unconventional film by newcomer Jan Bonny is
its seldom examined theme, the marital violence exerted by women! For
it is an established fact that husbands can be the victims of their
wives, although women are much more likely to be beaten up by men than
the other way round. But the rarity of such cases is precisely what
makes them interesting to study.
Assuming this to be true, it is not an easy task for a filmmaker to
tackle this problem. Showing a woman hitting a man is an uncommon,
unsettling show and it takes a lot of restraint and subtleness not to
turn such a story into a freak show. And it can be said that Jan Bonny,
never indulging in sensationalism, is the man of the situation. Blows
rain down in his film but what makes things acceptable (although seeing
'Gegenüber' cannot be called a pleasure cruise) is the
writer-director's empathy for his characters. He does not condemn Anne
Hoffmann, a primary school teacher, who, without warning, becomes a man
beater. He is content to observe her behavior, trying to understand
what -consciously or unconsciously - drives her to such extremities.
This outburst of violence seems, according to Bonny, to be the product
of sustained frustration (a scornful father, lack of recognition in her
job, lack of ambition of her husband) rather than gratuitous or
perverse. Likewise, he does not present police inspector Georg Hoffmann
as a mere victim. Why does the police inspector remain so passive when
assaulted by Anne? He is not a coward, quite the opposite as he has
managed to save the life of his young partner Michael during a
dangerous operation. Is he masochistic or is it because he wants to
protect their love? The latter question could contain the answer as, in
spite of everything, Georg and Anne remain a loving couple. Both a good
and bad news because, as the ending implies, they risk perpetuating
these destructive practices until old age - if they ever reach it.
¨Matthias Brandt and Victoria Trautmansdorff are exceptional as Georg
and Anne. They give their all to their characters, hard as their work
must have been, and make them believable throughout.
My only reservation concerns the cinematography and the camera-work.
Why such dirty pictures captured by such a shaky camera? Why such ugly
natural settings (the Hoffmanns' apartment looks particularly hideous)?
After all, Georg and Anne are middle-class, and even if they are not
well off, such sordid realism does not actually fit in. Wouldn't it
have been more relevant artistically to show a reasonably beautiful
environment gradually deteriorating as the situation worsens?
A worthwhile effort despite this minor flaw though.
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Rough and sympathetic but not esthetically pleasing., 16 July 2008

Author: guy-bellinger (guy.bellinger@wanadoo.fr) from Montigny-lès-Metz, France
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The main interest of this unconventional film by newcomer Jan Bonny is its seldom examined theme, the marital violence exerted by women! For it is an established fact that husbands can be the victims of their wives, although women are much more likely to be beaten up by men than the other way round. But the rarity of such cases is precisely what makes them interesting to study.
Assuming this to be true, it is not an easy task for a filmmaker to tackle this problem. Showing a woman hitting a man is an uncommon, unsettling show and it takes a lot of restraint and subtleness not to turn such a story into a freak show. And it can be said that Jan Bonny, never indulging in sensationalism, is the man of the situation. Blows rain down in his film but what makes things acceptable (although seeing 'Gegenüber' cannot be called a pleasure cruise) is the writer-director's empathy for his characters. He does not condemn Anne Hoffmann, a primary school teacher, who, without warning, becomes a man beater. He is content to observe her behavior, trying to understand what -consciously or unconsciously - drives her to such extremities. This outburst of violence seems, according to Bonny, to be the product of sustained frustration (a scornful father, lack of recognition in her job, lack of ambition of her husband) rather than gratuitous or perverse. Likewise, he does not present police inspector Georg Hoffmann as a mere victim. Why does the police inspector remain so passive when assaulted by Anne? He is not a coward, quite the opposite as he has managed to save the life of his young partner Michael during a dangerous operation. Is he masochistic or is it because he wants to protect their love? The latter question could contain the answer as, in spite of everything, Georg and Anne remain a loving couple. Both a good and bad news because, as the ending implies, they risk perpetuating these destructive practices until old age - if they ever reach it.
¨Matthias Brandt and Victoria Trautmansdorff are exceptional as Georg and Anne. They give their all to their characters, hard as their work must have been, and make them believable throughout.
My only reservation concerns the cinematography and the camera-work. Why such dirty pictures captured by such a shaky camera? Why such ugly natural settings (the Hoffmanns' apartment looks particularly hideous)? After all, Georg and Anne are middle-class, and even if they are not well off, such sordid realism does not actually fit in. Wouldn't it have been more relevant artistically to show a reasonably beautiful environment gradually deteriorating as the situation worsens?
A worthwhile effort despite this minor flaw though.
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