Große Mädchen weinen nicht (2002)

User Rating:

6.9/10   

Director:

Maria von Heland

Writer:

Maria von Heland (writer)

Release Date:

24 October 2002 (Germany)

Genre:

Drama

Tagline:

A provocative new film about what we go through to find out who we are.

Plot:

Kati and Steffi are best friends since childhood. But as they step into adulthood, both their perfect...

Plot Keywords:

Best Friend | Revenge | Family Relationships | Late Night | Imperative In Title

Cast

Anna Maria Mühe	...	Kati
Karoline Herfurth	...	Steffi
David Winter	...	Carlos
Josefine Domes	...	Tessa
Tillbert Strahl-Schäfer	...	Klaus
Jennifer Ulrich	...	Yvonne
Nina Petri	...	Ann
Stefan Kurt	...	Hans, Steffis Vater
Teresa Harder	...	Jeanette, Tessas Mutter
Matthias Brandt	...	Jost, Katis Vater
Gabriela Maria Schmeide	...	Ingrid, Katis Mutter
Dieter Laser	...	Herr Winter
Ingo Hasselbach	...	Bartender
Alma Leiberg	...	Ramona
Chiara Steinmüller	...	Lottie

Also Known As:

Big Girls Don't Cry (International: English title)

MPAA:

Rated R for sexuality, language, drug use and some violence - all involving teens.

Runtime:

87 min | Argentina:92 min

Country:

Germany

Language:

German

Color:

Color

Sound Mix:

Dolby Digital | SDDS

Certification:

Argentina:18 | Canada:18A | Denmark:11 | Germany:12 | Sweden:11 | UK:15 | USA:R | Iceland:12 | Brazil:16

Filming Locations:

Berlin, Germany

Company:

Deutsche Columbia TriStar Filmproduktion

Soundtrack:

Push

The truth about teenage life...

I'm currently studying with an exchange guy. He's from Germany and is learning many different languages. A very smart boy and fun to be with; and although he speaks to us in our language, it would be interesting to listen to him speaking German. Watching this film, I realized how that would be. Besides the German language itself, he would probably speak the same way; the expressions, and special words, because this film's characters live in the teenage world. The piece is very brave, and I don't know what the reception was at its country in its time, but director Maria Von Heland is trying to declare: "These things happen…And they happen to teenagers".

In this very real reality, kids go to school and have best friends, hang out with boyfriends, form rock bands, carry on a sexual life and so on. Von Heland's screenplay covers all of these aspects three dimensionally, because it expands them with a lot of knowledge. Best friends are what Kati (newcomer at the time Anna Maria Muhe) and Steffi (Karoline Herfurth). The first has just ended a relationship and the last has a boyfriend named Carlos (David Winter), who is in a rock band. The sexual life of teenage girls isn't something understood, it comes by the person each one is. The movie deals with this letting us know that Steffi and Carlos have known each other for a long time but they still haven't made love.

On the other side, Kati is always looking for chances; going out late, meeting older guys and carrying condoms inside her jeans. All this we learn when we are taken inside her house, where a ruined family clearly lives. In one scene, while Kati's family is having dinner, Von Heland shows with a still camera the faces of each of the members, and it becomes obvious; it's a tense and dysfunctional life. We later experience a father-daughter talk about some discoveries, and Kati and her younger sister praying to God while we listen to their parents' screams. They say: "God, I know you're very busy and all that, but please make our parents divorce soon". There's another strong scene near the ending, where Kati prays by herself.

Strong is about everything in this movie. Steffi also has his family issues, we find out. We know the character and we believe she'd resolve them maturely, but when Tessa (Josefine Domes) comes into the picture, and Steffi resolves, we realize that Kati is probably more mature than her and therefore how contradictory life is. Steffi has her motives for what she does with Tessa and everything she does later, so does Kati when she tells her mom: "This is who I am…Look at me!". So does Tessa's mom when she acts, and Kati's mom when she gets mad, and Kati's father when he advices her, and everybody else. One notable thing about the feature is that is difficult to take sides; you understand everyone.

Another very remarkable detail is the use of music, all of it in English, representing each moment of the story with lyrics and songs according to the music people of the movie characters' age listen. Everything that happens to the two friends is something that could occur to any friendship any day. Because when two people are friends since little, it is something given (in my case with my ever best friend Matías), and when they fight they always make up; it is the tough bond that unites them. But the truth is that sometimes there are some much stronger things that test that bond; and that is the time to find out if the feelings are real. What Kati and Steffi live is way too strong for their age, but it is up to them to work it out, while is up to the movie to show us how powerful friendship truly is.