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Overview

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Director:
Matt Reeves
Writers (WGA):
Jason Katims (written by) &
Matt Reeves (written by)
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Release Date:
3 May 1996 (USA) more
Genre:
Comedy | Romance more
Tagline:
A comedy about life-long crushes, mistaken identity and one really bad eulogy. more
Plot:
A young man's life is thrown into a loop when he is asked to be a pallbearer for the funeral of a classmate he doesn't remember, and his old high school crush temporarily returns to town. full summary | add synopsis
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Often overlooked, but delightful film more (51 total)

Cast

  (Cast overview, first billed only)

David Schwimmer ... Tom Thompson

Gwyneth Paltrow ... Julie DeMarco

Michael Rapaport ... Brad Schorr

Toni Collette ... Cynthia

Carol Kane ... Tom's Mother

Michael Vartan ... Scott

Bitty Schram ... Lauren
Jean De Baer ... Suzanne DeMarco
Elizabeth Franz ... Aunt Lucille

Mark Margolis ... Philip DeMarco

Barbara Hershey ... Ruth Abernathy

Edoardo Ballerini ... The Job Interviewer
Matthew Faber ... Jared
Robin Morse ... Sylvie
Tony Machine ... The Undertaker
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Additional Details

MPAA:
Rated PG-13 for some sexuality and language.
Runtime:
98 min
Country:
USA
Language:
English
Color:
Color
Aspect Ratio:
1.85 : 1 more
Sound Mix:
Dolby Digital
Company:
Miramax Films more

Fun Stuff

Trivia:
The roller coaster Tom and Julie ride is actually the Blue Streak, which is located at Cedar Point in Sandusky, Ohio. more
Goofs:
Continuity: The legal pad Tom scripts his phone call on is yellow in medium shot and white in the closeup inserts. more
Quotes:
Ruth Abernathy: [In restaurant, in front of Julie and her parents] So, this is Julie! Why don't you tell her, Tom, what you did to your best friend's mother?
Tom: He wasn't my best friend. I hardly knew him!
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13 out of 15 people found the following comment useful.
Often overlooked, but delightful film, 23 May 2005
7/10
Author: (rpbauer@hotmail.com) from United States

Maybe it was the great, eclectic soundtrack with the likes of Django Reinhardt, Herbie Hancock, Perry Como, Curtis Mayfield, Neil Young and Richie Havens, or maybe it was the dark and subtle bits of humor that pleasantly surprised me throughout the movie, but I really enjoyed this one.

We meet Tom, a forlorn twenty-something man-child still living at home and struggling to take control of his life, played by David Schwimmer of "Friends" fame. Tom gets a call from a woman who mistakenly believes he knew her recently deceased son. He goes along with it, presumably to save her the added grief of knowing her son had no close friends. Of course, Tom's accommodating nature backfires and he's asked to give the eulogy for a man he never knew. This sets up a scene with the kind of dark humor seen throughout the movie that audiences are either delighted with or immediately turned off by.

At the funeral, Tom meets Julie, his unrequited high school crush, played with genuine emotion and winsome grace by Gwyneth Paltrow. Thus begins two relationships that play out over the duration of the film --one with Grace, the bereft mother of the friend Tom never had, played by Barbara Hershey, and the other with Julie.

Yes, this movie owes much, in terms of plot and characters, to "The Graduate," with Hershey playing the counterpart to Anne Bancroft's Mrs. Robinson. But it turns out to be much more than just an update of the '60s classic. The audience really gets to know the inner turmoil both Tom and Julie are going through -- Tom, both for the guilt of becoming unwittingly involved with Grace, and for also being involved with Julie at the same time, and Julie, for being torn between striking out on her own to escape her overbearing parents and getting into a deep relationship with Tom.

There are a couple of sideplots going on with Tom's friends -- Michael Rapaport's character getting married to a woman his friends don't like, and Michael Vardan's married character, making a move on Julie, which obviously infuriates Tom. And Carol Kane as Tom's mom, is precious. In one scene, he is livid after she bursts into his room unannounced. After she receives a brief scolding for not knocking, she replies "I only wanted to see if you wanted some ice cream," to which he replies "A little."

Schwimmer nails the role, with his underplayed, tacit sadness about his so-far-failed attempt at making a responsible life for himself. And Paltrow, well, can she ever miss? Whether for the dark humor, spot-on acting, or superb soundtrack, this one is definitely worth a viewing.

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