We Don't Live Here Anymore (2004)

reviewed by
David N. Butterworth


WE DON'T LIVE HERE ANYMORE
A film review by David N. Butterworth
Copyright 2004 David N. Butterworth
**1/2 (out of ****)

"We Don't Live Here Anymore," the sophomore effort by director

John Curran ("Praise"), is sad, depressing stuff, an incredibly honest

depiction of two unhappily married couples who seek comfort in each

others spouses and wind up tearing each other apart. It's sort of like

a Neil LaBute slugfest in which both genders wind up in the Vegematic.

Jake (Mark Ruffalo) and Hank (Peter Krause) are best buds, professors

at a New England college where Jack teaches literature and Hank

creative writing. They like to run together and they like to sleep

with each other's wives. Jack's wife Terry (Laura Dern) is a mess, as

is their house. Their two kids often hear the two of them going at it

late at night (fighting, or "adult foolishness"). Terry drinks too

much and perhaps because of it Jack loves Hank's wife Edith (Naomi

Watts), or at least has sex with her, because she's everything Terry

isn't. And Edith in turn loves, or at least has sex with, Jack because

he's everything her husband, a blocked writer who's openly flirtatious

with his female students, isn't. Strange as it may seem Terry and

Edith are also close friends. What's different about the film is that

all this information is kept very close to the surface, with each

character openly suspicious of the others, all feeling the urge, the

need, to tell all. These are real, imperfect people: the men who

believe extramarital sex to mean everything (escape; redemption) and

the women who are uniquely able to forgive these indiscretions

(retention; strength). The film is based on the short stories "We

Don't Live Here Anymore" and "Adultery" by Andre Dubus.

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